
As a blogger, I'm going to have to jump on the wagon and mention the Jet Blue flight attendant, Steven Slater. I know the story is getting a little stale, but I am still reading about this guy on the internet daily a few weeks after the incident happened. (If you've been out of the country, or away from the media for an extended period, here's what happened:
www.cnn.com/2010/TRAVEL/08/10/new.york.escape.chute.opened/index.htmlI don't know what the whole story is on this guy, so I can't really judge him for what he did. According to his account, he was somehow mistreated by a passenger on the flight. I'm sure ANY nurse could relate to this...and secretly would like to have a similar reaction.
I know about 95% of the time patients and families are respectful and appreciative- but the 5% who are not can easily overshadow the good ones when you are having a difficult day. And nurses, as a rule, are supposed to be nice to everyone. You know nursing ethics: beneficence, respect, justice, all that stuff. It's not always easy, though.
I'm sure more than one of us secretly admired that flight attendant when we heard that story, wishing we could do the same...but hospitals and doctors' offices aren't really equipped with inflatable emergency slides to make a grand exit.
I tried envisioning what I might do: I don't think I would use profanity as this man did, but I'd probably say something over the call light system, tie a bunch of IV tubing end to end and make a rope, jump out the window, scale the wall, and walk five miles to the place where I have to park every day...
I read another story about a pharmacist who was fed up with her job and just wrote a note on the back of a receipt saying Saturday would be her last day. Hmm...maybe I could write on one of those prescription pads they keep in the nurses' station??
Okay, honestly. I wouldn't do any of these things, for one thing, who would take care of my patients? I am consistently treated very well by patients and co-workers at my job. I can recall times back when I worked in more of a med-surg area when the some patients weren't so nice. But I did try to give them the benefit of the doubt that it was because they were under stress.
We all have bad days, but we have okay days as well. It's important to take care of ourselves. I think there is no shame in healthcare professionals talking to counselors from time to time about the stress of their jobs, or at least having a really good laugh with your co-workers. Some of us have stress in our outside lives, as well, so that's why it's extremely necessary to get some kind of relief.
I hope everyone has a great week!